‘Books’ Category

The Quality of All Our Relationships

“…the quality of all our relationships is a direct function of our relationships to ourselves” James Hollis, The Eden Project

“The Eden Project” is a book I am rereading, again, because it is by far the best book I have ever read on relationships.

Although it is quite dense and somewhat academic, it is definately worth the effort to get through it. No other book has transformed the way I look at relationships as much as this beautiful and realistic essay by James Hollis.

Another brief quote from the book

“All relationships begin and end in separation”

Paul

Edited: April 21st, 2010

Blueprint Workbook – Techniques For Transformation and Success

This workbook contains exercises and insights built on the principles described in “Blueprint: Change Your Life From the Inside Out”. It is a practical step-by-step guide to personal transformation and success for anyone who is prepared to take action to achieve their goals.

The Blueprint Workbook is packed with techniques, strategies and methods to apply the Blueprint in your daily life. It is designed to take you seamlessly from the knowledge of the Blueprint to effective action in your life. The step-by-step process means that by the time you finish your workbook, you will be well on your way to achieving your goals. And you’ll understand exactly what you did, and why it worked. If it didn’t work, you’ll know why and have the energy and know-how to try it again more successfully.

Master the powerful techniques in this workbook and you will:

· See the invisible world around you, and work in harmony with it
· Use the power of emotion to accelerate your goals
· Learn powerful interpersonal skills
· Erase subconscious mental obstacles
· Create realistic plans you can achieve
· Measure and correct your progress towards your goal
· Free yourself from the effects of unwanted emotions
· Learn everyday skills that make your life more enjoyable and fulfilling

The Blueprint Workbook is 116 pages of techniques for personal transformation and success, painstakingly collected from years of experience and practice. Drawing on methods and techniques from a variety of sources that have been proven to work through my years as a professional life coach and clearing practioner (clients paid up to $250 an hour to work with me), this workbook is packed with information and exercises you are unlikely to find anywhere else.

From igniting the first spark of an idea, to building emotional energy to drive it forward, to practical planning and self-management techniques, this workbook covers it all. It even has interpersonal skills development. You can view the table of contents here.

By the time you finish this easy to read, fun to apply workbook, you will have more confidence, more certainty, and more fun achieving your goals. Not only that, you will experience self-confidence and fulfilment as you understand what is happening and why. You will be relaxed in the face of stress and opposition, knowing you have the skills and knowledge to handle whatever life throws at you.

To get your copy of the workbook select the option you would like below. As usual, my 100% Risk Free Guarantee applies. If you don’t like the Blueprint Workbook for any reason, simply let me know and you will be refunded 100% of the purchase price.

Blueprint Workbook:
	Paperback $24.97 (FREE shipping inside USA)	Ebook $17.97
Blueprint Package (Blueprint & Blueprint Workbook)
+	Paperbacks $35 (FREE shipping inside USA)	Ebooks $27

As a coach I can only help one person at a time, and not everyone can afford me. I wrote these two books so that you can learn to help yourself to achieve your goals, become more confident and realize your own power. If you get the package deal it means I can start helping you achieve your goalsright here, right now. I like that. I think you will too when you see how much easier it is when you have a clear road map of success that makes sense to you and fits your personality and focus.

Start by reading “Blueprint: Change Your Life From the Inside Out” . When you’ve discovered the secrets of using the Blueprint in your life, you can immediately start applying them by learning the skills in the Workbook. Together “Blueprint: Change Your Life From the Inside Out” and the “Blueprint Workbook” are a complete step by step guide to taking solid, practical steps towards your goals, and growing as a person at the same time.

To Your Success and Self-Realization,

Paul Drayton

As always, feel free to email or call me if you have any questions, comments or suggestions. I’d love to hear from you.

paul@changeyourblueprint.com
ph. 1-904-556-2990

Edited: May 1st, 2007

There Are No Accidents

(Excerpt from Chapter 1 of “Blueprint – Change Your Life From The Inside Out”)

“The heavens themselves, the planets and this center,

Observe degree, priority and place

Office and custom, in all line of order “

– Shakespeare, Troilus and Cressida, Act I, sc. 3, 1.85

There are no accidents.

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Everything you did today, everything you have accomplished in the past, everything you own and cherish, everything that exists, has followed an exact sequence of steps to its creation. If you follow these steps, your dreams will become a reality. If you don’t follow the steps or you don’t know the steps, your life will be a battleground of invisible enemies who seem to have nothing better to do than make your life difficult.

This is a lie. There are no enemies. There is only working with the laws or against the laws.

In the second year of my physics degree I began to see the incredible order and structure of laws governing the movement and interaction of all things around me. Years later I landed at Miami International airport and had the sobering realization that there are no accidents. Everything happens because it was made to happen. Everything happens according to the laws of the universe.

We accept there are laws governing the movement of the planets. We accept the laws of gravity and magnetism, yet we have difficulty seeing or accepting the laws that govern our movement through our lives.

I am constantly amazed at people who believe their lives to be the quirk of fate or fickle circumstance. They believe they have no control over what happens in the lives. “That’s just life” they say, as if that explains it. They don’t see through the apparent disorder to the simplicity of the Blueprint beneath.

This chapter is a quick tour through the entire Blueprint. It starts at the end and works back to the source of everything that happens (or doesn’t happen) in your life. In subsequent chapters we will look at each step of the Blueprint in detail. This will give you a clear picture of how and where to make changes in your life that will make getting what you really want as easy and effortless as possible.

Edited: October 26th, 2006

Local Writer Publishes First Book

“Blueprint – Change Your Life From the Inside Out” (ISBN 1-41079547-0 Hardcover, 1-41079548-9 Paperback) 196 pages, December 2003, is available in bookstores including Amazon.com and Barnes and Noble or by visitingwww.changeyourblueprint.com

Edited: January 21st, 2005